Short Snack

Snack 85: Mindful Goodbyes

Snack 85: Mindful Goodbyes

In this very special, final (for now?) episode, Ruby, Anne, Jamie, and podcast producer Shannon Perry reflect on how difficult it can be to say goodbye. But as A.A. Milne says in the voice of Winnie the Pooh, “How lucky I am to have something that makes saying goodbye so hard.” Given how hard this is, we’ve clearly been very lucky indeed. Then stay tuned for Jamie’s meditation on letting go so you can move forward.

Snack 83: Letting Go

Snack 83: Letting Go

Note: This episode contains news on the future of The Whole Pineapple podcast, so be sure to tune in!

Snack 82: Equal Playing Fields

Snack 82: Equal Playing Fields

In this episode, we hear the realities of being an athlete in a female body: not just the realities of dealing with a cycle or having a more limited window for having a family, but also the cultural limitations (just wait until you hear Nikki’s story about the “shared” ice/hot baths in Chicago, oooof). The biggest battles often aren’t against an opposing team.

Snack 80: The Vaginal Microbiome

Snack 80: The Vaginal Microbiome

OK, we knew the human gut had one of these, but the vagina too? What’s actually going on in there?

Microbiomes are incredibly diverse ecosystems: we are more bacteria than we are human. Yep. Read that again — there are more bacteria in us than human cells. You, my friend, are a moving, breathing microcosm that is incredibly cooperative when you’re healthy.

Snack 79 Fertility through the Decades: Middle School to Menopause

Snack 79 Fertility through the Decades: Middle School to Menopause

As anyone born with a uterus will tell you, living in a body equipped with one of these and all that goes with it comes with a special set of challenges. And many of us don’t really know all we need to know, so think of this episode as a sort of Owner’s Manual.

So what do we need to know through the decades of our life?

Snack 77: Starting Over

Snack 77: Starting Over

In this episode, Anne and Jamie are discussing exactly this topic, as Jamie announces a big and exciting change in her life (and yes, you’ll have to listen to find out what it is, but it’s good).

One big takeaway here is that there are two coping strategies most of us tend to fall into when confronted with big change: avoidance and control. Do we duck the change that’s coming until we realize we really can’t breathe with our heads in the sand? Or do we take control (maybe a bit too much, sometimes)? Or do we vacillate between the two, making ourselves and those around us a little bonkers?

Snack 76: How to Help When Everything You Say is Wrong

Snack 76: How to Help When Everything You Say is Wrong

Though attention generally focuses on the one hoping to get pregnant, partners are suffering too. They’re sad and scared and hurting, but their attempts to help are perhaps a bit clumsy because they often can’t understand the ramifications of fertility treatment on the body, the heart, and the psyche.

Snack 75: Happy Birthday, Louise Brown!

Snack 75: Happy Birthday, Louise Brown!

July 25, 1978 was a great day, and not just because July 25 is Ruby’s birthday. This particular day in 1978, the first IVF baby, Louise Brown, was born!

Snack 74: How Patients Can Advocate for Access to Care

Snack 74: How Patients Can Advocate for Access to Care

What can people who aren’t professional lobbyists do to make our voices heard?

According to Sean Tipton, you can do exactly that – you can make your voice heard. Register to vote and then vote. Talk to candidates for political offices, especially when they’re in an election season, as they’re most likely to listen at that time. You have a right to be heard, so get in there and get talking.

Snack 73: Talking Yourself (& Your Vacuum) Off a Cliff

Snack 73: Talking Yourself (& Your Vacuum) Off a Cliff

In this episode, Jaime and Anne discuss how emotions need wiggle room, they need to move. You can’t just push emotions away and expect them to stay gone. Complaining to a patient friend, writing it out in a journal, pummeling a punching bag — those things can allow you to vent rather than explode, stop catastrophizing, and get that feeling of being in control back.

Snack 69: Try Before You Bi-Opsy: Why, When, & How Do We Test Embryos

Snack 69: Try Before You Bi-Opsy: Why, When, & How Do We Test Embryos

Did you know: We can take cells from the outside of an embryo and test them?

Formerly, “embryo biopsies” were done only if there was a risk of serious disease like cystic fibrosis. It wasn’t routinely done because taking a cell or two from an embryo that is only 8 cells brought with it the possibility of damaging the embryo.

Snack 68: Things to avoid in IVF and why

Snack 68: Things to avoid in IVF and why

There are a lot of mythunderstandings (misunderstandings + myths!) out there about IVF, so in this snack, Ruby and Anne are going to talk about the things you genuinely need to know.

Snack 67: Show me the money – applying for infertility grants

Snack 67: Show me the money – applying for infertility grants

If you don’t qualify for a Roaring Adventures grant, don’t despair! The organization can help you find resources elsewhere. Do be cautious, however; you’re sharing a lot of personal information and often paying a fee when you apply for a family grant. Make sure the organization you’re approaching is legitimate.

Snack 66: I’m Just Here To Do My Job: Coping with Work Triggers

Snack 66: I’m Just Here To Do My Job: Coping with Work Triggers

How do you feel when fertility issues come up at work? Someone puts a baby photo on their desk, a colleague is pregnant, invitations to a baby shower or to contribute to a baby gift float around — these can be hurtful for those dealing with fertility challenges, but asking someone to put their baby photos away or refusing to participate in a celebration are often just not an option.

Snack 65: Do Your PT Homework!

Snack 65: Do Your PT Homework!

So what can you do to get “better functional coordination” in the very complicated network that is the pelvic floor? Well, first, it’s important to know what you’re working with, says Abby. (NOTE: The best way to do this is work with a PT so you learn all the things correctly!) But one way to start is to pay attention to your breathing. Where is the expansion and contraction happening?

Snack 64: A Listener’s Story

Snack 64: A Listener’s Story

In this special episode, a Whole Pineapple listener shares her journey and struggles through secondary infertility.

There are lots of special concerns in this situation: when you have a first, people don’t worry about asking when you’re going to have another the way they might hesitate to ask about a first. There’s guilt about potentially having a “lonely only.” And what about as parents age, is it “wrong” to leave all the responsibility of caretaking on one child?

Snack 62: Infertility in Fiction

Snack 62: Infertility in Fiction

In this snack, Ruby and Anne look at several examples of fertility “tropes” that show up again and again in drama, and we reckon a lot of them will feel familiar to you.

Snack 60: When the superbowl isn’t super: Casual triggers

Snack 60: When the superbowl isn’t super: Casual triggers

In this episode Anne and Jamie Mammenga talk about how to gently, politely extricate yourself from a situation where you don’t feel safe or supported. Whether you went to get more nachos you really didn’t want, or remembered a task or meeting you urgently needed to attend to, Anne and Jamie said to give yourself permission to walk away.

Snack 59: Changes in state laws

Snack 59: Changes in state laws

In this snack, hosts and guest are tackling specifics around frozen embryos: who do they belong to, how did the Dobbs decision change the laws, do people need to be shipping their embryos to states that are more aligned with their needs and beliefs?

Snack 58: PAVING the Path Through Menopause with Michelle Tollefson

Snack 58: PAVING the Path Through Menopause with Michelle Tollefson

Puberty in reverse – Welcome to menopause! Like those tumultuous adolescent years, you may feel like a tourist in your own changing body. And it’s not necessarily a fun destination, with hot flashes, mood swings, weight gain, and the longer-term dangers of osteoporosis and increased heart disease risk.

Snack 7: 23 & Your Ancestry

Snack 7: 23 & Your Ancestry

In this snack, Ruby, Anne, and guest genetic counselor Rachel Donnell tackle the question: What’s wrong with a commercial test? Answer? There’s nothing wrong with it, as long as you treat it as a fun way to learn more about yourself, and NOT as a medical diagnosis.

Snack 56.5: What is PGT?

Snack 56.5: What is PGT?

PGT or “preimplantation genetic testing of embryos” – even the name is complicated. But, as we’re having a genetic counselor come in to talk about testing and what the results mean, we thought a little primer on the science would help everyone understand the longer episode better.

Snack 56: IVF Is Confusing AF!

Snack 56: IVF Is Confusing AF!

In this short snack, Ruby and Anne talk about what IVF or in vitro fertilization is, and how it works if you and your fertility provider decide it’s the best treatment path for you.

Snack 55: Sensory Overload in Fertility Clinics

Snack 55: Sensory Overload in Fertility Clinics

Patients know that advocating for themselves can be necessary to getting the best medical care, but it can be really difficult for some to be understood when they express themselves — hence this very important conversation! Neurodivergent peoples may communicate their discomfort differently, so it’s truly helpful if clinics are more educated and neurodiversity-friendly.

Snack 54: Taking a Break

Snack 54: Taking a Break

One way to start feeling better is, honestly, to take a break. Take some time off from fertility treatment – it can be a few weeks, a cycle or two, whatever amount of time you need – so you can come back ready, refocused, and with more resilience in your tank.

Snack 51: “Pink Line Addiction” & Breaking Patterns

Snack 51: “Pink Line Addiction” & Breaking Patterns

One of our wonderful listeners sent us a question to ask if others experience what she called “Pink Line Addiction.” While “Pink Line Addiction” is a great band name, this concept of frequent home testing can really impact your life.

Snack 50: Fertility Mood Music 

Snack 50: Fertility Mood Music 

Anne and Ruby share some science behind why music is so powerful in helping us manage Big Emotions like fear, uncertainty, and joy. Anne and Ruby have (quite) different musical tastes and are drawing from different perspectives.

Snack 49: Holding Hope

Snack 49: Holding Hope

When you’re dealing with fertility challenges, holding hope can be as prickly as hugging a (real) pineapple sometimes. When others are posting their happy announcements on social media or when someone tries to give you hope when yours has run dry, well, you might feel frustration or envy or even grief instead.

Snack 48: None is the Loneliest Number

Snack 48: None is the Loneliest Number

Today’s short snack is a listener story and a very special guest – Anne’s husband, Nick! Nick is here to talk about his diagnosis of Severe Male Factor. He shares his and Anne’s fertility journey from his point of view, from the surprise of their diagnosis to the challenges of unsuccessful initial treatments.

Snack 47: Compassion Fatigue

Snack 47: Compassion Fatigue

Dr. Stevenson’s research centers around the “compassion fatigue” that can weigh on fertility nurses who are not only providing care for their patients but also supporting them emotionally. Her research is based on information gathered from 200+ fertility nurses and focuses on if they experience compassion fatigue and if it leads them to want to leave this demanding profession.

Snack 46: Gift Ideas for the Fertility Journey

Snack 46: Gift Ideas for the Fertility Journey

Buying gifts for someone on a fertility journey can be really challenging — you need to know if the recipient is open to a funny gift, for example, or if it’s best to avoid the subject altogether.
As usual, Ruby and Anne are stepping up to help out! In this episode, they offer a bunch of tips not only about items that are available but also how to think about the person on the other end.

Snack 44: Mindfulness for the Holidays

Snack 44: Mindfulness for the Holidays

In this episode, Anne Judge and Jamie Mammenga talk about stresses — and solutions! — that come up at this time of the year. Listen in for some great tips about setting boundaries, dealing with invasive questions, recharging your energy when family and friends are burning you out, and more!

Snack 43: Gut Health and Hormones

Snack 43: Gut Health and Hormones

Gut health and hormones — who knew that was a thing?
According to Dr. B., these microbes that hang out in our gut are so intertwined with our hormonal balance that the gut microbiome is basically an endocrine organ.

Snack 42: Film, Food, & Fertility

Snack 42: Film, Food, & Fertility

What do scary movies (or not-so-scary movies), wellness, and fertility journeys have in common?
Listen to this special Halloween Spooky Snack to find out!

Snack 41: Supporting a Loved One through Grief

Snack 41: Supporting a Loved One through Grief

It can be so hard to know what to say, and no one wants to make pain worse by saying the wrong thing. But as Grief Coach Wendy Sloneker says in this oh-so-valuable conversation with hosts Anne and Ruby, sharing happy memories can be a gift. Just follow your loved one’s lead.
If you’re trying to find a way to support someone, there are some great ideas and advice in this episode. If you’re going through grief and you wish your friends knew the information in this episode, maybe ask a trusted friend to share it out.

Snack 38: Mindfulness for Chronic Pain Relief

Snack 38: Mindfulness for Chronic Pain Relief

According to Jamie Mammenga, you can work to change the narrative around the pain. Know the triggers that surround the pain, understand the baggage your pain brings with it, and see if you can find another way to view the pain.

Snack 37: BMI Limits & Fertility Care

Snack 37: BMI Limits & Fertility Care

Nutritionist Rachelle Mallik hears “My doc says I have to lose weight” a LOT in her practice, and she’d really rather doctors advise their patients to practice healthy habits than just “lose weight.”

Snack 36.5: PCOS Misconceptions

Snack 36.5: PCOS Misconceptions

True or False: the only issue PCOS causes is problems with fertility.
Not sure? Listen up—it’s PCOS Awareness Month, and Ruby and Anne are delivering a special episode to provide additional information about this common but little-known disease.

Snack 36: Mindful Eating for PCOS

Snack 36: Mindful Eating for PCOS

In this delicious snack, Anne and Ruby are talking with Certified Nutritionist and Wellness Coach Chelsea Fechtner. Chelsea has some fabulous ideas about how you can enjoy your food and really nourish your body and spirit at every meal. Bon appetit!

Snack 35: “Representation is a Lifeline” with Regina Townsend

Snack 35: “Representation is a Lifeline” with Regina Townsend

Why was it necessary to have a physical space in South Chicago that focuses on reproductive health?
Chicago is historically one of the most segregated cities in the US, says Regina Townsend of The Broken Brown Egg, and most reproductive clinics are located in the more affluent, predominantly white neighborhoods on the north side.

Snack 34: The End of Endometriosis?

Snack 34: The End of Endometriosis?

What if you could help end endometriosis?
Endometriosis is a much more common problem than previous medical stats might have led us to believe. But as it becomes more and more apparent that many with endometriosis were just mis- or undiagnosed, studies that give us the real facts become more valuable.

Snack 32: Braving the Storm   

Snack 32: Braving the Storm   

In this short snack, Anne Judge and Jamie Mammenga talk about how mindfulness and gratitude can help you move through the storm. In addition to “fluffy” shows. 😉

Snack 31: All About Fibroids with Dr Paul Lin

Snack 31: All About Fibroids with Dr Paul Lin

People may not know they have fibroids until they start having extremely heavy periods at perimenopause — or until they have struggles getting pregnant.
In this short snack, hosts Ruby Booras and Anne Judge and guest Dr. Lin talk about where fibroids come from, when they need to be removed, and what impact they can have on achieving pregnancy. (Hint: location, location, location)

Snack 29: Racial Disparities in a Post-Roe World

Snack 29: Racial Disparities in a Post-Roe World

Anne and Ruby are speaking again with Dr. Jasmine Johnson, this time about the potential ramifications of this decision on all people who can get pregnant. Listen up, and if you’re so moved, get active to protect reproductive health!

Snack #27: Weight Loss Medicines Don’t Pull Their Weight

Snack #27: Weight Loss Medicines Don’t Pull Their Weight

Large-scale, randomized studies seem to show no particular benefit in dropping X% of your body weight.
In this short snack, our experts take a look at some new studies and sum up for us what this new information appears to indicate.

Snack 27: Birds and Bees Talk 2.0 — Teens & Pelvic Pain

Snack 27: Birds and Bees Talk 2.0 — Teens & Pelvic Pain

For past generations, getting a proper diagnosis for pelvic pain could take half a dozen doctors and a decade OR MORE, if the diagnosis came at all. Getting a diagnosis — and management plan — ASAP is definitely worth a potentially uncomfortable talk!

Snack 26: How to De-Stress Sex

Snack 26: How to De-Stress Sex

Jamie and Anne sit down to talk about distinguishing love making from baby making, how to maintain a strong relationship when sex becomes stressful, and how to communicate your needs with yourself and your partner. And then, Jamie leads us on a meditation that will leave you relaxed, refreshed, and ready for the day.

Snack 25: Legal Matters for LGBTQIA+ Family Building

Snack 25: Legal Matters for LGBTQIA+ Family Building

On today’s short snack, we welcome back Lara Hayden (she/they), MSW LICSW, to talk about some of the legal specifics of LGBTQIA+ family building. What legal issues should LGBTQIA+ folks think about when beginning a family building journey? What resources are out there? What are the options and protections around sperm donations? Even though legal issues often make us think about worst case scenarios, for Lara, the goal is to be prepared, not scared!

Snack 24: Let’s Talk About Sex! Part 2

Snack 24: Let’s Talk About Sex! Part 2

You had questions, we have answers. On today’s short snack, we’re responding to your queries about sex. Like, are aphrodisiacs real? Is there such thing as a sexual “peak”? And can you control the sex of your baby at conception? Tune in for all that and more.

Snack 23: Celebrating Pride as a Family with Jaimie Kelton

Snack 23: Celebrating Pride as a Family with Jaimie Kelton

Jaimie has some great anecdotes and a lot of insight about undoing internalized homophobia, modeling pride for your kids, and grappling with being a non-biological parent. How to be a queer family out in the world? It boils down to love, of course.

Snack 22: Let’s Talk About Sex! Part 1

Snack 22: Let’s Talk About Sex! Part 1

On today’s short snack we’re covering some juicy stuff you’ve always wanted to know about sex, but (maybe) are afraid to ask your fertility doc. Like should you actually stay horizontal after sex to increase chances of pregnancy? Does a clitoral orgasm have any bearing on fertility rates? How often should you have sex if you’re trying to get pregnant? And can you get pregnant while you’re menstruating?

Snack 21: How COVID-19 Impacts Sperm Health

Snack 21: How COVID-19 Impacts Sperm Health

On today’s short snack, we welcome back Dr. Marah Hehemann – who is a fellowship trained surgeon, researcher, educator and patient advocate specializing in the fields of urology, reproductive health, and sexual health – to talk about the direct impacts of COVID-19 on sperm health.

Snack 18: What’s the Deal with Progesterone?

Snack 18: What’s the Deal with Progesterone?

Progesterone is the hormone that signals your uterus to turn into a nice comfy place for an embryo to implant.

Supplemental progesterone can be an important part of fertility treatment. It’s also one of the most common, confusing, and controversial topics of conversation in the fertility world. So, how do you know if you should take it? What’s the goldilocks timing? And are there side effects?

Snack 17: How to Make Your Home healthier

Snack 17: How to Make Your Home healthier

On today’s short snack, Dr. Natalia Grob – who is an expert on endocrine disrupting chemicals – is back, and going room-to-room in the house to talk about what we should ditch to make our environments healthier.

Snack 16: What’s the Deal with Ovulation Predictor Kits?

Snack 16: What’s the Deal with Ovulation Predictor Kits?

On today’s short snack, Ruby and Anne are going back to basics and talking about hormones, ovaries, and menstrual cycles. And then, the question you’ve all been asking: what’s the deal with ovulation predictor kits, and are they worth using?

Snack 15: Food for Fighting Cancer

Snack 15: Food for Fighting Cancer

One in eight women in the U.S will be diagnosed with breast cancer.

A year and a week after her previous clear mammogram, Dr. Michelle Tollefson went in for another. This one showed a lump.

On this week’s short snack, Dr. Tollefson shares her experience as a doctor becoming a patient – of knowing the information but having to face putting it into practice. Tune in for an incredible story, and for actionable steps we can take to prevent and fight cancer with lifestyle medicine.

Snack 14: Self-Care During Spring Holidays

Snack 14: Self-Care During Spring Holidays

On today’s short snack, friend of the pod Jamie Mammenga shares some tools for navigating a fertility journey during this heightened time. Be sure to listen before heading out to family brunch. Jamie’s wise and soothing words are like a gentle breeze.

Snack 13: Health and fertility at every size with Judy Simon

Snack 13: Health and fertility at every size with Judy Simon

On this week’s short snack episode, we welcome back Judy Simon to talk about how we can engage in gentle nutrition and joyful movement instead of restrictive dieting. And, she talks about the imperative that medical professionals practice respectful patient-centered care and weight inclusivity. Along the way, she debunks commonly held – and antiquated – beliefs about fatness and fertility.

Snack 12: Fertility Coaching – What is a fertility/IVF coach

Snack 12: Fertility Coaching – What is a fertility/IVF coach

On this week’s short snack, Monica shares her journey, including grappling with endometriosis, miscarriage, and emotional tumult. And, she explains how a fertility coach supports clients. If you’re considering a fertility coach, or are interested in finding community with others who are facing fertility difficulties, this episode is for you.

Snack 10: Thyroid Basics

Snack 10: Thyroid Basics

In this week’s short snack, Ruby and Anne dig into the thyroid. What’s the deal with T3 and T4? What’s the difference between hypo and hyperthyroidism? What about the hypothalamus and pituitary gland? We even included some fascinating thyroid health history (hint: it involves seaweed in the year 2700 BC!).

Snack 8: Book Club

Snack 8: Book Club

Get Ready to Read! Reviewing two books about in/fertility

If you’re facing fertility challenges, there are myriad resources for medical and emotional support. There are podcasts (ahem, like this one!), classes, and…books! On today’s short snack episode, Ruby and Anne are reviewing two fantastic reads.

Snack 7: Ujjayi Breathing for Fertility

Snack 7: Ujjayi Breathing for Fertility

Breath is the foundation of a yoga practice. In this short snack episode, Lynn Jensen leads us through an ujjayi breathing exercise, which is great for calming down your central nervous system. Get ready to relax and expand your capacity.

Snack 6: “The Camera Goes Where?!” Assessing the Uterus and Tubes

Snack 6: “The Camera Goes Where?!” Assessing the Uterus and Tubes

We’ve covered the initial fertility tests for eggs and sperm, so on this week’s short snack, it’s time to travel up to the uterus and fallopian tubes. But how? Ruby and Anne discuss the difference between a Hysterosalpingogram or ‘HSG’ and a hysteroscopy, and what information can these diagnostic procedures reveal. When should you consider these tests? What can you expect from the office visit? And what’s the deal with the ‘wandering womb’? Get it all on this episode.

Snack 5: Does Weight Matter?

Snack 5: Does Weight Matter?

In this short snack, Ruby and Anne chat with Dr. Nichole Barker about if and how weight impacts fertility. They unpack some of the muddiness around BMI, and explore the more nuanced goal: wellness.

Snack 4: Types of Wellness Medicine Defined

Snack 4: Types of Wellness Medicine Defined

Ruby and Anne discuss the many different kinds of medicine: conventional, complementary, alternative, functional, preventative, lifestyle, and more. And, they get into some of the systemic issues that prevent a more holistic, patient-centered care model. Your wellcare is unique to you, so let’s explore the many options you have!

Snack 2: Semen analysis: What do all those numbers mean?

Snack 2: Semen analysis: What do all those numbers mean?

A semen analysis is a snapshot in time, so what can it really tell you? In this short snack episode, Ruby and Anne reveal the story behind the numbers, debunk some common misconceptions, and take us on the sperm’s journey.

How are sperm counted? What does that tell you about your fertility? Is there such a thing as an ideal sperm? Hear it all on this episode.

Snack: Sperm Everywhere

Snack: Sperm Everywhere

When you deal with fertility in all its … humanness, things can get messy.
Hang on — you haven’t heard the story yet!
Enjoy this little bit of extra content we couldn’t quite leave on the cutting room floor. We hope it gives you as hearty a laugh as it did us!
#SpermEverywhere

Egg Supply: What Ovarian Reserves Can Tell You

Egg Supply: What Ovarian Reserves Can Tell You

In their first snack episode, Ruby and Anne dig into the details – and clarify some of the confusion – of AMH testing, antral follicle counting, and the impact of genetics on fertility. Tune in to learn about the state of your ovaries.

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